And now, the first in a series of answers to your (my loyal 3 readers’) questions:

I really like this guy, he has the greatest personality and sense of humor. and i feel completely comfortable talking to him about anything (even seriuos issues). So, ok, he’s not all that and a bag of chips when it comes to looks, but he’s sure as hell not bad looking either. the main issue though is that he still lives at home with his momma and he’s dirt cheap - and has no problem informing everyone else of this (i had to pay for my own meal on our first date)…there are other small issues here and there, but this is the major one…do i move on or stay for the ride?
Sincerely Tasha
Dear Tasha,
Does this boy have a job? Generally speaking that helps in the whole paying for dinner thing. Perhaps he’s recently unemployed, after all we are in a recession, give the guy a break. Unless of course he’s sitting at home waiting for his Lionel Ritchie cover band to get discovered. If this is the case, then I suggest you walk away. Not slowly. Quickly. Very quickly. If he has a job, but is just cheap, well I know it’s crazy,but if you like him, you could embrace your roll as a modern woman and pay your own bill. Just a thought.
Loves ya,
Brundiggity

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